Relationships & Break-ups

 Recently two of my girlfriends broke up with their almost "the one" boyfriends.

2 years and 5 years respectively, both had different situations, different takes.

Yet both the girlfriends and the ex-boyfriends of theirs

were in your term "very nice person,lover and friend" and yet this happens.

Was it the wrong person at the wrong time? or the right person at the wrong time?

Both relationship parties has made their decisions, both affects my view on a lasting r/s

but still I hope they all make the right choices and move on with life.

What about mine? Dont worry, everything is good :)

Relationships, whether they last 2 years or a lifetime,are all opportunities to experience love on its many different levels. We learn the things we love about ourselves, the things we'd like to change, and the qualities and values we look for in a partner.Loving relationships teach us self-respect as well as respect for other, which is one of the most fulfilling things we can have in our lives.

However, all betrayal is ultimately self betrayal.

When we refuse to see certain aspects in another or in a situation,

it is the denial of that truth that betrays us. Dont start blaming the other partner when its your own fault.

Dont make yourself the victim when you are not.

   

 You need two people who treat each other with love,

affection, respect, and support, and have a commitment to each other.

3 most important qualities of a relationship but easier said, than done.

Attraction is the "chemistry" part of love.

 Closeness is the bond that develops when we share thoughts& feelings that we don't share with anyone else. 

Commitment is the promise or decision to stick by the other person through the ups and downs of the relationship

To me in a relationship, I feel  whats important is to give and take, share your feelings between each other and always be there to listen, support and care. These are the little things, that might not require too much of an effort but still many cant do it.

From my view, LOVE is very beautiful, to be in a relationship with someone you love makes the circle complete. I have never stop believing in love neither have I doubt it. Its not a job but yet a commitment.
So, if you cant commit, dont do it. Someone will  get hurt.


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To me, this is forever. Simple like that.

   

Christmas.
Gifts.
Wish Upon A Tree.

Have you started to get gifts?

This year will be my first Xmas with Bf,

though we been together almost 2 years now.

Where should we go?

Did you know that I only got to know him on Xmas Day 2009, itself?

Best Xmas Present :) Ever.

*Yums to the boy's lovely cooking skills.

Oh especially the home marinated garlic pork chop slices,

YOU WILL NEVER GET IT ANYWHERE! SUPER YUMS!

WE HAD THAT FOR LIKE 4 MEALS IN A ROW.

:) simple meal makes me feel loved just like that!

We went shopping at Centrepoint after visitng his mom at the hospital,

and we found out a secret *shhhh*  as much as I want to tell you,

I CANT, because the person who lose out will be ME!

tsk.

Bought this Foot Mask Gel Exfoilation TO REVEAL BABY SKIN!

which came in this very cute plastic wrappers and they provide you scotch tapes

 as you can see with the word "TAPE"

Its claimed to be No.1 in Japan, costing 29.90sgd

I was tempted and yet a lil heartache to spend on this.

I wanted to try this out first and see if it works bfore getting one for the boy to use it.

Its easy to use!

 First: Shower, wipe your feet dry, do not apply any moisturiser.

Second: Wear this pair of wrappers and tape it well to your feet!

Third: SOAK FOR 2 HOURS

( DO NOT ATTEMPT TO WALK, ITS TOO SLIPPERY!)

You will be tempted to take it off after an hour because 2 hours is toooooo long but NO DONT DO IT!!

Fourth: You cant wait to go to the toilet and wash it off with SOAP, dry it properly, if its looking a lil red dont worry! and shoo off you go to do whatever you need to do.

NOTE: Result is to appear 2 to 7 days later depending on individuals.

I will update the photos if they start peeling to reveal baby skin!

Do not apply any cream/ moisturisers during this period,

if your skin is too dry, just a lil moisture will do.

Emotions.

The emotion scars from all the hurt from the past,
seems to creep back at me since last night till now at the very least.

Its like half of me, feeling all the anger and revengeful
 and the other half is in fear of feeling the same pain.
Its funny how, it doesnt bother/affect me for a few years,
but yet when it happens, everything happened the week before.

Homecooked!

Bought from The Rail Mall Cold Storage!

Expensive but fresh!

We bought a striplon & tenderloin meat, marinated :) freshly at the available marinating station, so by the time we brought it home it's almost an hour of marination: ready to cook!!

Got corn bits and French garlic sausages which was awesomely yummmmy! Cooked pasta for the next day meal too!

Toasted Baby potatoes with herbs and olive oil *yums*

Julia dear's birthday

HAPPY 23rd JUJU :)

We went to Medz, a marche-like restaurant at orchard central to nomnomnom! We spent the longest time together today till both Jojo and I are zZz!

The crushed potatoe $3 with maincourse roasted chicken.

Tasted so good we ordered another serving of crushed potatoes!

Busy nom-ing dearest gfs of mine!

much love! I love how we take time off, take leaves just to meet up and be happy together!

22nd

Happy 22nd Anniversary, my boy.