Recently two of my girlfriends broke up with their almost "the one" boyfriends.
2 years and 5 years respectively, both had different situations, different takes.
Yet both the girlfriends and the ex-boyfriends of theirs
were in your term "very nice person,lover and friend" and yet this happens.
Was it the wrong person at the wrong time? or the right person at the wrong time?
Both relationship parties has made their decisions, both affects my view on a lasting r/s
but still I hope they all make the right choices and move on with life.
What about mine? Dont worry, everything is good :)
Relationships, whether they last 2 years or a lifetime,are all opportunities to experience love on its many different levels. We learn the things we love about ourselves, the things we'd like to change, and the qualities and values we look for in a partner.Loving relationships teach us self-respect as well as respect for other, which is one of the most fulfilling things we can have in our lives.
However, all betrayal is ultimately self betrayal.
When we refuse to see certain aspects in another or in a situation,
it is the denial of that truth that betrays us. Dont start blaming the other partner when its your own fault.
Dont make yourself the victim when you are not.
You need two people who treat each other with love,
affection, respect, and support, and have a commitment to each other.
3 most important qualities of a relationship but easier said, than done.
Attraction is the "chemistry" part of love.
Closeness is the bond that develops when we share thoughts& feelings that we don't share with anyone else.
Commitment is the promise or decision to stick by the other person through the ups and downs of the relationship
To me in a relationship, I feel whats important is to give and take, share your feelings between each other and always be there to listen, support and care. These are the little things, that might not require too much of an effort but still many cant do it.
From my view, LOVE is very beautiful, to be in a relationship with someone you love makes the circle complete. I have never stop believing in love neither have I doubt it. Its not a job but yet a commitment.
So, if you cant commit, dont do it. Someone will get hurt.
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To me, this is forever. Simple like that.
From my view, LOVE is very beautiful, to be in a relationship with someone you love makes the circle complete. I have never stop believing in love neither have I doubt it. Its not a job but yet a commitment.
So, if you cant commit, dont do it. Someone will get hurt.
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To me, this is forever. Simple like that.